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Also, sorry about your father.
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Definitely preaching to the poverty choir. I was super fortunate to be approved for Medicaid a couple months ago, which in the US is government-funded medical insurance on a state level (New Jersey). My doctor options are limited and it's the lowest-grade care available, but better than nothing. Truth be told, my self-therapy methods and new habits have been yielding magnificent results on their own, clinical therapy will be an added bonus.
And thank you for that regarding my dad. He made it to 73, which is incredible considering his terrible lifestyle and health choices. It was a good run. And he was kind of a douche, so although I am saddened at the loss, I'm relieved by his absence. I hope that's not as fucked up as I think it sounds LOL
Daniel, I love you dude. Ten damn years I've been posting alongside you, and enjoyed the few vocal chats we've had over the years. If you ever get the itch to move to America, I'd be honored to acclimate you to this horrorshow known as the USA.
And will one of you other fuckers chime in already! I can circlejerk grue all day, don't test me, but I want to connect with the other 5 of you. Dr. Belieber is in.
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well, real exciting bunch you lot are
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they're too busy "living life", with their "stable jobs" and "loving family"
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i'm not busy doing anything but niki thinks i'm subhuman so there no point in me posting about my troubles and woes because she'll probably just tell me i deserve them. (i might deserve them)
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also i've been told that my posts leave a lot to be desired so i tend not to post unless i've had a few beers (i might have had a few beers)
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Heh, you're alright Chaz. dont see niki posting much lately anyway... dont take any guff from us seriously, we bust balls. at least i do
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i don’t intend to pay rent for the space i seem to occupy in your mind Charles
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and if you can’t comprehend why 90% of the men who were on this (?) forum in 2007 don’t deserve my sympathy or empathy then you really aren’t in a position to expect it
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Charlos here's a bit of unsolicited advice: the only problem I have with your posts is that they start from this extremely defensive position that you take even before you actually start posting. So half the time you're baiting some weird political argument that you're clearly not very invested in, or you're (like you did just now) commenting as a reaction to what you perceive someone might say.
I get that you have reasons to feel attacked but on a personal level if you allow other people to constrain your actions and thoughts you'll be always discarding your own personality as a subjugate to the personalities of other people. And that's something that, even if it was learned as a reaction to what other people are doing to you, you are now doing to yourself.
It's like, you came here to comment in response to something mean you imagined Niki would say to you, which means you're at least partly experiencing the distaste that you would really feel if Niki actually had said something. And since Niki hadn't said anything yet, that distaste came only from you.
I'm very versed in that kind of mind-trap and it's hard to disentangle but the gist of it is that bad things will happen to you enough that there's no reason for you to bring them up upon yourself on top of it.
Also, if you came here to talk about your issues and someone decided that that was a great oportunity to humiliate you further, I would mod it out because that's not nice. But usually that's not the case - usually what I see you doing is baiting an argument. Maybe you do it because you expect it to happen anyway. But that circles back to what I was saying before, right?
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i would hope that people have the balls to understand when someone says something that sounds like something they would say. most of them are too cowardly to do so.
So, if i say i think niki is gonna come in an tell me i'm subhuman because of things that were supposedly said 14 years ago, i would hope that she has the minerals to understand that i'm more pre-empting rather than getting defensive or anything. but she'll probably choose to ignore that. She's said she hates me and asked if i'm ever going to be a real person. not here, but in other threads. am i wrong to remember those things and work out a pattern of behaviour?
maybe instead of alluding to this shit niki, that clearly i'm too stupid to comprehend, tell us.
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Bro, get off it already lmao
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I’m glad that to all of you inflicting sexual trauma on a young girl is “things that were supposedly said 14 years ago”, that’s why I do not give a fuck about you or your problems just like you, For Some Reason, in your infinite obsession, said for me
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I don’t know if it’s me or women in general you have some deep seated issue with but you namedropped me out of fucking nowhere. You want someone to tell you you’re not liked? Okay here I am doing that, I don’t like you, what the fuck do you want me to do here? Clearly NOT POSTING AT ALL isn’t the solution, telling you to shut the fuck up isn’t the solution, maybe you should get a fucking therapist before you go on a stabbing rampage at a nightclub
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Or maybe charlie the reason I don’t like you isn’t some unknowable mystery but the personality flaws that over fourteen years you haven’t touched. Maybe that’s the root of your problems. Maybe it is you. But I’ve been telling you why!! If you’re too fucking dumb to comprehend it stop fucking making that everyone else’s problem I bet you can find a hooked on phonics program on Amazon to sort that issue out too
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